Strippers

Ok, one of my pet peeves of the day.

Yes, I hate strippers. That's just me. The thought of someone dancing in front of a person, showing off her goodies for money makes me cringe. Personally, it's not for me. I've told Pookie this (my maid of honour) because she's planning my bachelorette. She understands. So ladies, no strippers at my bachelorette. Sorry to disappoint lol. But I don't want some pork sword swung in my face on a night of fun - because that to me is not really fun.

On the other hand, if Dave's buddies decide to throw him a bachelor party complete with a strip club, I am O.K. with that. Now, you may ask me "How can you not be O.K. with strippers, but O.K. with Dave seeing them?" Ah, but that word, "seeing" is the key to the answer to that question. There usually is a "no touch" policy, so really all he is doing is "seeing" them. Does he have the same emotional attachment to them as he does to me? No. Will he come home at the end of the night and be with me? Yes. Are we getting married and spending the rest of our lives together? Yes. Do I trust him? YES.

And those are my thoughts on that situation. I trust him, he's marrying me, not the stripper. I'm not going to sit there and tell him "You cannot have strippers at your bachelor party". I can't control that! And I don't think it's really fair for me to tell him and his buddies what they can/cannot do. I hate strippers, but I hate being the controlling woman even more. If Dave feels he doesn't want strippers either, that is up to him to decide and tell his buddies. I have no place in the planning and execution of the bachelor party, so I won't act like I do.